A modern app for the lifestyle you love!

Tolkami

Say goodbye to outdated and insecure dating apps. Find real connections in your area with better matchmaking, privacy, and a vibrant swinging community.

A Sleeker Interface

Including powerful filters to find matches by preferences, location, age, relationship type and interests.

Better Privacy

Easily choose who sees your images and browse profiles without popping up in their notifications.

No fakes

Real people only – we verify members to keep out fakes and make connections safer.

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Why Settle for Outdated Apps?

Upgrade Your Swinging Experience.

Tired of scrolling through inactive profiles, fake accounts, and clunky interfaces? We built this app for real swingers who want better matches, more active users, and a safer way to connect. Whether you're looking for new experiences, local events, or like-minded couples, our platform makes it easier, faster, and more fun to find your perfect match.

Frequently Asked Questions

Want to know more about our services?

Absolutely! We’re always looking for ways to improve. If you have an idea that would make the experience better, we'd love to hear it! You can submit feature suggestions via email to idea@tolkami.com. Our team reviews all suggestions and prioritizes features based on demand and feasibility.
We offer both free and paid plans to fit different needs. The free plan provides access to core features, while our premium plan will include exclusive perks like advanced filters, verified profiles, and enhanced privacy options. We're still finalizing the details, so stay tuned for pricing updates!
Your privacy is our priority. We use profile verification, incognito mode, and encrypted messaging to help you connect safely. Unlike other platforms, we give you full control over who sees your profile and messages. Plus, we never sell your data—your information stays secure with us.

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